Falling In Love With Blogging Again

I started writing this post and deleted it three times before convincing myself to put it aside and come back to it when I’m actually blogging again. I’m back and writing again, so I felt now would be a good time to finish the post and share it with you.

From the beginning of the year until March, I was really struggling with blogging. I wasn’t reading and I wasn’t writing. It’s not that I didn’t have any ideas. On the contrary, I had so many ideas but I lacked the willpower to actually execute a blogpost.

As I thought about this, I decided to think about why I started blogging. One of the reasons I began writing was to give me something to think about other than university and all of the stress that comes with it. More information on this can be found here. You can read more about this here. Now that I don’t have that anymore I found myself not really wanting to blog and feeling like i don’t have any reason to. I had nothing to escape from.

Don’t get me wrong: I think it’s great. I appreciate blogging and sharing these last several years of my life with you. It was only a matter of giving myself reasons to keep blogging. I needed to rediscover my passion for blogging. So I decided to stop blogging till I rediscovered my love for it. I wasn’t going to come here and publish material that I didn’t feel passionate about. That has never been and will never be my brand.

In this blogpost, I will share some of the things I did to rekindle that fire and passion for blogging. Maybe someone could find them helpful if they are going through something similar.

1. Finding the WHY behind the blog.

Some people will argue that you don’t always need a reason for doing something but I, obviously, disagree. If you’re going to commit to something, you need to have a reason for doing that. The reason why is that, among other things, it what will push you to get it done or even push you to give it your best. Always identify the “why?” behind projects that you embark on and things you decide to do. Why are you friends with them? Why are you dating that man? Why did you decide to apply for that course? Why did you use that specific formula? Knowing why helps you make decisions and just gives you an idea of which direction to go. I really believe in knowing why. I am that person who reached the age where toddlers always ask why and never moved on from it.

Photo by Ann H

I had to ask myself why I started blogging and why I loved it. One of the reasons I started blogging was because my blog gave me something to think about that wasn’t university or the stress that came with it. You can read more about this here. Now that I don’t have that anymore I had to look for more “whys”. I did this by reading some of my very first blog post like this one where I wrote about fear. I absolutely love this post and I can’t believe it was my first one. I also read some of my favourite posts just to remind myself of why I started.

I was able to come up with 6 reasons why, two of which included my blog being a place to share my untold stories and the fact that it is not only a blog, but it is something bigger.

You Can Also Read: Addressing Fear

2. Reading Work By Other Bloggers & Following New Bloggers

Another thing I did was start reading work by bloggers I follow. When I stopped blogging, I also stopped reading blogs which is honestly not a good thing. So I started catching up on work by different bloggers, just trying to see what’s going on in their minds and their lives in general. I believe you cannot be a writer without being a reader. I am choosing to die on that hill. Seeing my blogger friends in action really made me excited about posting weekly as well and of course, there is always so much to learn from people. Photo by Pixabay: https://www.pexels.com/photo/blog-icon-information-internet-262508/

I also looked for more blogs with a niche similar to mine and about things I’m interested in. It was such a fun time discovering blogs, reading about people and what they do and just doing a lot of learning. Unfortunately, during this time, I found that not so many African bloggers are geared towards things I enjoy reading. Of course, there are some I know of and follow closely, dare I say I have even become friends with. That really helped me want to get back to blogging. Just so I can create content I, personally, want to see. This is one of the why’s behind my blog.

You Can Also Read: Blog FAQs: Writing Process, Why I Blog etc.

3. Reading Books Again

Like I said, you cannot be a writer without being a reader. Something I had lost over the years, was my habit of reading for pleasure. I went from reading 5 books a month to maybe 4 books in a year. I just didn’t really have the time to read for fun but I also didn’t make time for it. So, during this journey of falling in love with writing again, I decided to fall in love with reading again. I have a whole blogpost about this scheduled for later so you will be reading about it soon. I set a goal to read 1 book every month and I’m on track right now. I have read some very interesting books so far and others I had to put down because I simply couldn’t get into them. I’ll share more about this soon. For now, you can follow my Instagram if you wish to keep up with my book escapades.

Reading books has introduced me to different writing styles and always shows me different ways of expressing oneself through words. It has also made me eager to tell my own stories and actually try to write a book. I need to write at least one book in my lifetime.

4. Switching Up The Design Of The Blog

I had to make things look a little different. I don’t know how noticeable the changes are to everyone else but they are there. I figured that making the blog seem new, by giving it a new look, would make things much more enjoyable for me.

5. Creating Content That I Enjoy + Fresh Content

While I’m planning on trying out different styles of writing, the plan is to create content that I enjoy. So as I jotted ideas down, I only wrote things that I, Wonani, would read if I was not the main contributor of posts here. Writing content solely for other people can take the joy out of things and honestly, I just want to enjoy my blog. This isn’t a job so I want it to be something I enjoy. Everything I have written down since making this decision has been something I love.

Additionally, I was reminded of a time last year when my blog was reviewed by African Bloggers on the Afrobloggers WhatsApp platform. One person suggested that I steer away from following a monthly routine in my blog. In the moment, I didn’t really understand the comment but I do now and I really appreciate that comment! My content actually started becoming repetitive. If you look at my posts from 2020 and 2021, you’ll notice some similarities at certain points of the year. I’ve made it a goal to break out of the boundaries or limitations I unknowingly set for my blog and write and tell fresh stories. I will still write about certain things that happen in certain months but I decided not restrict myself to that.

These are some of the things I did to make blogging enjoyable again. I must say though, that sometimes, we genuinely lose interest in certain things and that is okay. If you decide your interests have shifted or you’re not enjoying a particular hobby anymore, try out something new. This just wasn’t one of those times for me.

Here’s to making blogging more enjoyable again!

Have you ever found yourself losing interest in a certain hobby? Did you drop the hobby or did you do what you could to enjoy it again? Please let me know in the comments below!

Thanks for reading!

Wonani Xx

18 thoughts on “Falling In Love With Blogging Again

  1. I’ve started blogging in august 2021, and ever since I’m consistent.
    At one point, It lost interest, but then I got back up and came up with a content that’s much more easier for viewers. Since then, I keep on trying new stuff and I enjoy this procedure.
    Welcome back and this time please stay, you have a lot more to share 🙂

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  2. Welcome back to blogging! Sometimes I think it helps to take some time off and rethink your blogging goals and make new ones. I think redesigning your blog makes a big difference too. Great post!

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  3. Good writing skill required, but lots of the time promotion and interaction with the site users also require to create a perfect blog. No article stays always on top. I also think focusing on a particular niche will help in long run. Nice article

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  4. Welcome back, Wonani! And yes, the execution part can be the bottleneck sometimes. Heaven knows I have a file full of ideas that I’m not sure how to translate to paper. Anyway, great to see your return, and I look forward to reading your posts. Just like good old times!

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  5. I love blog posts about blogging, so thank you for this! I haven’t had trouble yet with keeping the blogging momentum going. However, I deal with that ALL of the time when it comes to my art making. I tend to create in fiery bursts. And after it’s out of my system I can go months without wanting or needing to. But I always feel guilty and torn. And sometimes try to force it. Even tho, I’ve learned over the years to just accept when I’m not into it. And honor the inspiration when it comes. And that takes off some of the pressure. Because why do anything if it doesn’t make you happy right? Thank you for sharing and I’m glad you’re back! ☺️

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    1. “Honor the inspiration when it comes.”
      That is so beautiful!
      Oh yeah this definitely applies to more than just blogging.
      It’s such a weird thing though. Like I would like to create all the time but somehow I …. can’t. Hahaha.

      Why do anything if it doesn’t make you happy? You can ask that 2 more times.

      Thanks Libby. ♥️

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  6. Hey Wonani, I can relate to your post. So many times we lose interest in the things that we love. It is important to go back and ask ourselves why we chose to do this. If I don’t read I don’t have anything to write and it makes me feel sad😑

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    1. Oh yeah. It’s important to go back to the roots.
      Hahaha it’s kinda twisted how reading and writing go hand in hand. Like I just want to be able to write without reading. 🥲


  7. I feel the same as you. 2022 has been an exciting and challenging year for me so far, and blogging hasn’t been my priority at all. I sometimes wonder if I want to stop altogether or take the longest break ever. I’m still not sure what I want to do. I’m glad that im not alone in feeling this way though, and im so glad to see you’re back!

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    1. It is definitely a strange spot to be in.
      I kinda think it’s okay to let it fall back a little if other things are more important in a particular moment. So maybe start with a break if you really can’t blog right now?
      Idk but I’m glad I’m not alone too. 🥰

      Thanks for reading and all the best.

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